Sometimes the obvious is missed

It feels like I'm taking 2 steps back at times. Maybe it's falling backwards in order to realize one needs to stand back up and keep moving forward.

Maybe it's the whole dichotomy of American culture. As a culture we value money and success over the quality of one's life or the actions of a person. We lost sight of our souls in the pursuit of money, success. When we lose connection to our soul, we lost the ability to really be all we're meant to be. We lose our true ability to be giving creatures full of honor and grace.

Our culture has also corrupted human sexuality in a similar way. Human sexuality becomes just physical and a method to repress and regress what we are meant to be as men and women. Men are only told that sex is a conquest-based activity; it is the man's job to hold down, control, and order their partners. [There can be such a script within this broken sexuality, that if a woman tries to move from it, she is corrected and told what to say and do.] Women feel less than when they give into their sexual feelings and lose their flame, their light.

We are meant to be equals, to find harmony and balance within the true pure power of love-love of the other, love of the Great Divine, love of the universe. 

We keep missing what we need due to Ego-based wants..
 
Life is a journey; sometimes we wander of the path we're meant to take. I feel like I've taken a small detour the past week or two. Now I can see, its not for me to go back into those old feelings of feeling "less than". I know I deserve much, much more than that. So, it's time to let go of temporary lust and those "little deaths of the soul" that come from the smoke and mirrors of sexting and phone sex. Time to continue to nurture my heart, my soul,and embrace life.

 

Thoughts of Enlightenment

Several quotes from a specific character have jumped out at me lately as being very astute, wise and thoughtful.

For example:

"I want to share something with you: The three little sentences that will get you through life. Number 1: Cover for me. Number 2: Oh, good idea, Boss! Number 3: It was like that when I got here."

These are the type of things that would get most people though their work lives with little conflict. In many jobs, employees have to keep their heads down and not get noticed in order to survive. [Unfortunately, it's that way; I'm hopeful that things will shift in the upcoming years and change for the better for people who are repressed at work and elsewhere.]

Second example:
"It takes two to lie. One to lie and one to listen."

Simply, a universal truth. Sometimes we know someone is lying to us, yet we continue to believe it. It's a part of human nature to trust. Unfortunately, there are times the people we trust are not worthy of that trust. I believe we could all admit to ourselves {at least} that we have lied to ourselves at one time or another. {Unless we choose to lie to ourselves right now.}

Truth we all face from time to time:

"Dear Lord.. The gods have been good to me. For the first time in my life, everything is absolutely perfect just the way it is. So here's the deal: You freeze everything the way it is, and I won't ask for anything more. If that is OK, please give me absolutely no sign. OK, deal."

One of the constant things in life is change. Yet, as humans we want to resist change (at least, it seems like most people resist change). So, we try to make a deal, keep things like they are. But would we really be happy if things never changed? It would mean stagnation, people wouldn't grow up and be who they are meant to be. It is the one truly thing I'm fairly certain won't change, there will be change in life.

Is this your truth?

"I've always wondered if there was a god. And now I know there is -- and it's me."

In my belief, we are all a part of the divine source. God is within us all. It is what connects us to every living being out there (animal, plant, human). The interconnections between us all can be powerful. Sometimes we feel pain, sadness, despair; yet, these feelings can lead to great growth. After weathering the storm and a quiet peace settles in, we find love within our hearts and souls. That is God ~ God is love.

A final bit of wisdom:

"Sometimes you have to break the rules to free the heart."

When the rules force us to conform into someone we're not, we have to find our way to break out. We can choose to live life as everyone else expects us to, or to live life in a way that honors our soul. 

Thank you, Homer J. Simpson for your humor, inspiration and wise words over the years. You have led by example (and many times by showing us what not to do).